June is elder awareness month. World Elder Abuse Awareness Day was recognized on June 15th, but the entire month should be used to recognize this important topic. Unfortunately, elder abuse is far more widespread than it should be. This goes for abuse perpetrated by another person or organization, as well as abuse perpetrated against one’s self.
Self neglect is common in some groups of seniors. Self neglect occurs when a senior (or someone else–it doesn’t necessarily need to be an elderly individual, it just usually is) does not take steps toward taking care of themselves. This could include staying in bed all day, despite needing to use the toilet, not preparing meals or eating, not taking needed medications, or going for prolonged periods of time without cleaning themselves or grooming. Neglect happens when someone does not receive the care that they need to meet basic needs. Self neglect happens when someone does these things to themselves.
Self neglect is complex. It won’t necessarily look the same from person to person. However, if you suspect that a loved one or friend is in such a situation, there are things that you can do. Each state has a different set of authorities that can be called. Here in California, you can call the Long Term Care Ombudsman program at 1-800-231-4024 or 911, depending on the severity of the situation.
Any sort of abuse is something that we all want to see avoided. But because self neglect can take place even when everyone around an older adult is doing everything correctly and in their best interest, sometimes the right setting can be of more benefit to a senior than the right care. In some cases, this means keeping an older loved one in their home–with the right support system helping them out. This is one of the many reasons why we believe that in-home care is so important.
This kind of care isn’t the only one out there, but for many, it’s the best kind of care simply because it doesn’t force major lifestyle changes. This can be especially beneficial when it comes to those that are struggling with dementia. Several research projects indicate that memory care is most effective when it takes place in a familiar setting. For the vast majority of seniors, this means within the home.
If you’d like to talk more about how in-home care can help prevent self neglect from occurring, or anything else to do with care–please feel free to reach out. One of our caregivers would be happy to talk you through all of your questions. Even if you decide that in-home care isn’t quite right for you, we’re happy to walk you through how care can help and point you in the direction that you think will work best for your family. There’s no obligation on your part, and there’s no pressure. Our goal is to help you feel comfortable with whatever direction you decide for your family.
One of our trained professionals would love to talk to you and your family about how in-home care might be beneficial.
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