Pets are an important part of many people’s lives. If you have a dog or a cat (or something else!) then you probably already know just how special of a place a pet can have in the life of your family.
And while it might not be at the top of a list of concerns when an older loved one begins to struggle, you can be assured that if they have a beloved pet, it is something that they are going to be concerned about when plans for senior care are being made.
A new pet has also been shown to be beneficial for seniors, especially if they live by themselves or are otherwise isolated. This includes health benefits like lower blood pressure, lower reported levels of stress, and lesser feelings of depression and loneliness. A dog certainly doesn’t have the same social benefits as another human, but that doesn’t mean that they have no social benefits. Dogs provide companionship and can help fight against the negative aspects of social isolation and depression. One study even indicates that 60 seconds of petting a dog per day can help alleviate symptoms of depression. For those that are prone to experiencing this, a pet might be a great solution.
You know your loved one better than anyone else. A pet might not be something that interests them at all. But maybe it’s something that can help. If you’re not sure, this is always a conversation that can be had.
Pets, especially dogs, also can lead to greater levels of exercise. This doesn’t have to mean taking your dog out for a jog everyday. Sometimes, the extra responsibility of getting up to let an animal out, feed them, and simply engage with them can help those that are more sedentary get up and get moving. For older folk, even a small amount of increased activity can have big health benefits over the long haul.
Pets aren’t perfect for everyone. For some, the extra strain of the costs associated with a pet can be just too much. Food, vet bills, and other expenses can add up over time. For those that are already struggling financially, a pet can easily become a burden. This isn’t fair to the animal or the person caring for them. If you’re not sure whether or not a pet is the right move, it’s always best to err on the side of caution.
One final thought. Not all places allow pets. If your dad’s building does not allow for dogs and cats, this isn’t a realistic conversation. Likewise with your grandma’s assisted living facility. It might not be a negotiable topic. But, if your parent lives in their own home, a pet might be a good bridge to help keep them connected and interested in something. If they’re already receiving in-home care, it is a good topic to explore with their caregiver, as they will likely be impacted by the decision to get a dog or another pet. There are benefits to pets, but not every scenario will play out in the same manner.
Leave a Reply